(Closed) Bridesmaids/Groomsman in the wedding?

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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809 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m not having any. We’ve each chosen a person to act as our witness but we’ll have no official wedding party. Many girls around here are doing the same thing! Just do what works for you. Know that you only have to have them if you decide you want them 🙂

Post # 5
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809 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Most people ask how many bridesmaids I’m going to be having. When I say none, I initially get an interested look and then they say “smart choice!” 

Do what you want! No one is going to not have fun at your wedding because you don’t have bridesmaids. 🙂 Good luck!

Post # 6
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1184 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Just curious you’re having no bridesmaids or groomsmen but are you having a Maid/Matron of Honor or any flower girls or ring bearer? Ushers? Do you have a wedding party?

I don’t think It’s weird. I personally wanted to have bm and gm so that I can make a grand entrance.But it’s your wedding and you’ll be the main attraction even if you don’t have a huge wedding party.

Post # 8
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3332 posts
Sugar bee

I don’t think it’s necessary to have BM/GM if you don’t want them.  You’ll likely need someone to witness/sign your marriage license, but you could just ask a couple of friends or family members.  If you wanted to include family/friends in the ceremony without having a wedding party, you could always have them do a reading or something.

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