(Closed) Bridesmaid/Sister Rage!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Can I ask her for the money back and tell her to just come as a guest now.



    Even if you did you won't get your money back


  • Post # 19
    1855 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I’d be a bridezilla and demand that armpits be shaved. FFS, it’s ONE DAY. Shave your fucking armpits!

    I’m sorry, I’m trying to be super accepting here. But the lack of shaving thing is too much for me. I can deal with chest tattoos, piercings, weird hair…but not shaving just takes away from the “pulled together” look that the wedding party should have.

    Post # 21
    9051 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    I don’t quite get it? Sorry but has she said- I don’t support your marriage? Has she said weddings are rubbish? Has she said you shouldn’t get married? because no where in your post did I see anything like that. Therefore how can she not be supporting your marriage?

    I don’t get why people associate not wanting to be involved in the details as I don’t support you or your marriage? If she doesn’t show up by choice then she doesn’t support your marriage.

    She is clearly not interested in the details and has obviously been upfront about it and you yourself said she tends to be selfish. Did you really expect her to be any different just because you are getting married and gave her a role? I am not trying to be harsh but nothing she has done really screams to me I don’t support you.

    Did you specifically let her know how much you expected of her as a Bridesmaid or Best Man when you asked? Being a Bridesmaid or Best Man means different things to different people as many posts on the topic on this site show. To a lot of people being there on the wedding day in the required dress is all that is required. Maybe that is how she feels.

    To me it sounds like she lives pay check to pay check (no matter what you think her financials are) and most probably wont have the cash to pay for a ticket until just before the wedding. Not that it should matter because she will most likely be able to get a flight and it is entirely up to her to arrange that and to decide when that is since she is an adult.

    I am sorry but you have been extremely judgemental about your sister through this thread. In the grand scheme of things does it really matter if she shaves her underarms/eats vegan/dates a muslim/is organised or is it important that she is your sister and you love her for who she is and she makes your wedding?



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