(Closed) Bridesmaids/sister jobs

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Wow! I feel like we’re in the same situation! But there’s a lot of different ways you could incorporate her into your special day: as a reader, usher, someone who hands out programs, etc. You might also think about your sister’s talents; for instance, is she musically inclined? In that case, perhaps she can sing/play for your wedding at some point. 

I wouldn’t stress too much about not asking her to be a bridesmaid. Your relationship is what it is, and I for one totally understand what it’s like to have a sister who you just can’t imagine asking to stand by you on your wedding day. If you proceed with kindness, graciousness, and patience, I would hope that everyone would be understanding. And I think it’s great that you still want her to be a part of your wedding–I’d stress that when approaching her and your family. Don’t focus on the fact that’s she’s not a BM; rather, emphasize the special way she has been included in your wedding. B

Best of luck!

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