- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
If you’ve seen the movie “Bridesmaids”, one of my bridesmaids is totally Helen. She’s taking over everything that my Maid/Matron of Honor wants to do. Maid/Matron of Honor wanted to throw me a shower. She had some really cute ideas and was going for something laid back since that’s who we are. My Bridesmaid or Best Man wants to do a fancy brunch with china and silver and tea sandwiches. So not me! Nothing about my wedding is going to be fancy. I’m not a fancy person. I want people to come and have fun, not be all proper. How can I tell Bridesmaid or Best Man to back off and let my Maid/Matron of Honor do what she wants to do?