- 12 years ago
- Wedding: October 2021
My wedding is 10/11/08 and one of my bridesmain sent me an email today that she won’t be able to be part of wedding party. I know she got pregnat and sounds that her pregnacy was not going well. First of all, she has cancelled a lot events to get together as a wedding party such as luch for the bridesmain.(she was not pregant at the time) Going with me for my hair trial, birhtday and finally my bridel shower, etc. I sent her a notice that the rehersal will be on Friday and we will invited all the group for dinner after the church and she said she will be there. Then today she sent me this email that she is not feeling well but the only positive thing is that her baby is doing well. And she cannot give more details. I do understand her position, but I think there is not consideration that she should tel me at least a month ago and do not wait until 9 days before the wedding. I am very disappoited about her. I already sent her an email said that i do understand her situation but i am disappoited about her attitued waiting for the last minute when she knew that her health was not going well. I think honesty goes first special is somebody consider you as a friend. She answer me back that there things in life that we need to prioritize and did not want to hurt me and also she said that wedding is not about number of bridesmain, but the brides’s attitude. I said to her this issue is not how many bridesmain i would like to have or any attitude is about a little consideration for whom you consider as your friend.Probably I sound upset but i have to say it. Then i send a apology letter but still i am very upset about her attitude and waitn until the last minute. I think those things a real friend won’t do that.
Please somebody can give some comments