(Closed) Bridezilla tearing family apart!!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

I would tell your friend Pam to stop acting like a child…

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I don’t really know what you could do in this situation? No offense, but Pam sounds like a baby.

Her Fiance has his own mind, and he’ll have to make his own decisions about who to side with, if anyone. There’s not much you can do.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@bellamarie3:  Sadly, I can’t answer that question.  Is she like this all the time with other people, or just during the wedding planning?  Honestly, maybe her Future Sister-In-Law just couldn’t make those social events…sometimes people’s schedules don’t allow for it.  She has to understand that everything does not revolve around her since she is getting married.  Her Future Sister-In-Law is also in wedding planning mode, so she needs to understand that she has her own priorities too.  I’m not sure what you can do, except go to lunch with Pam and try to have a “come to Jesus” talk with her and get her to settle down a bit.  🙁

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@bellamarie3:  Are you the Maid/Matron of Honor for Pam?  In that sense, I would try and talk with her, hoping that she won’t turn on you too.  But if not, maybe I would just stay out of the family drama…what does your Boyfriend or Best Friend say?

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@bellamarie3:  Mmm, idk, maybe she is just really stressed and needs a girls’ day.  Maybe you and her can hang out and maybe try and see where it’s all coming from without doing a full-on “come to Jesus” lol.  

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2013

You must be a nice person because of your concern. They’re lucky to have someone like you willing to care, however, I’d stay out of it. It’s drama that you need not be a part of just to show you care about the family.

Go forward doing what you can in the planning to be clear and concise so nothing is misunderstood but outside of that I’d stay out of it.

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