(Closed) Bridezilla is driving me nuts!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yikes! I’m sorry you’re dealing with this!

Have you tried maybe a girls lunch and have a honest conversation with her- something like, “I can tell you’re super stressed, what can I do to help you so that you are happy on your wedding day?”….something that doesn’t put the blame entirely on her attitude but also tries to work with her to get her into a better frame of mind?

I’m not saying the way she is acting is right…but try to give her some slack…she’s probably got a lot on her plate right now and trying to keep a lot of people happy. She is lucky to have a friend like you that is sticking by her side 🙂

Post # 4
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

if you are feeling stressed and that the wedding has become a burden can you imagine how she is feeling?  and with only a week to go i suggest lots of deep breathes and remind yourself that this is unusual behaviour from your friend and soon it will (should) pass

goodluck and remember, deep breathes and smile

Post # 5
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714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

PPs have given some good advice.  Wedding planning is so stressful, even though we all think it will be different when we do it.  I had so much fun at my wedding, but i am seriously glad it is over and the planning is in the past.  I know my Maid/Matron of Honor was also relived when it was all done and glad the old me was back.  Just feel comfort in knowing that you will probably have your friend back in a couple of weeks time.  In the mean time try to be patient with her and support her as much as you can. 

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