(Closed) bridezilla or control freaK????

posted 7 years ago in Food
Post # 3
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10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

It’s your ceremony so it’s up to you what’s said. Unless your Fiance told his friend to go ahead and write it, he shouldn’t have started to write it without consulting with you first. We’re hopefully being married by my cousin and I wrote the whole ceremony. I plan to let her know about it after she confirms everything with me.

To answer your question, I don’t think you’re being a bridezilla or a control freak. You’re being a bride!

Post # 5
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3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I don’t think you’re being either. I would just talk to the officiate and see if he minds you writing it. If he does, then it becomes a problem, but not before 🙂

Post # 7
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5 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

It’s your ceremony, I think you have every right to have the power to control how it is carried out! Totally not bridezilla, especially if you already spent time writing things the way you want it! Maybe have your fiance gently explain that although you are so greatful he will be marrying you, you have already taken a great deal of time to write your ceremony and you would like him to follow your plan of action.

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