- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
A friend of my fiance has volunteered to marry us. I know him in a casual manner–not really that close. As much work as I have put into the ceremony, I feel that I want to take control of writing our ceremony also. I know the feel I want for the ceremony and how I want it worded. I think the friend has already started writing some of the ceremony. I dont want this—I have already written the ceremony and I want to give it to him to follow. Is that wrong?? How ddid you handle it if you wrote your ceremony. Give the person doing the ceremony the script and say read this? I feel stuck!!! Fiance thinks I am being a total control freak!