(Closed) Bridezilla (vent)

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
305 posts
Helper bee

with all the drama surrounding bachelor  parties, does he really care if he has one or not? sounds like he or his friends could care less. so count your blessing you aren’t on here crying about him screwing a stripper before you wedding (emphasis added for shock value)  you can go paintball anytime. 

let it go.

Post # 4
1038 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think you would only make things worse if you tried to step in.  Think of how your Fiance will feel (and the teasing his friends will give him) if you had to plan his bachelor party. 


Maybe they are gonna surprise him?  But yeah, I would just let it go.  Focus on the wedding, the bachelor/bachelorette parties are totally optional imo.  I likely will not do anything for mine and I’m totally ok with that.

Post # 5
1512 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Are there other groomsmen? Maybe mention something to them to get the ball rolling.

Post # 6
4324 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

My Darling Husband did not have a bachelor party. He doesn’t feel as though he missed out.

Post # 7
2542 posts
Sugar bee

Our groomsmen were like that. They left everything until the last minute and then were unable to book any of the activities that they had originally planned. They didn’t even go to a bar! Just ate BBQ and played video games. Fiance said he had fun but I was quite angry over it…

Post # 8
22 posts
  • Wedding: August 2010

Talk to your Fiance about what he wants. I personally don’t think a bachelor party is a necessary thing, but it’s your FI’s opinion that counts here. My man really wanted one so that he didn’t regret not having one. I’ve planned a college friend’s bachelor party remotely – that was actually a lot of fun, but the groom had asked me to plan it.

Post # 9
2105 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Stay out of it. Your Fiance can deal with them. Since it’s his party for and with his guys I think it would only be drama for you to involve yourself. He is perfectly capable of talking to less-sucky friends about plans. You can always go paint balling with him after the wedding.

Post # 10
3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I agree that as hard as it is, you really should stay out of it. It sucks but maybe they will step up their game. Fiance has to be the one to deal with it though. Guys can be so flaky! 

Post # 11
711 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012 - Watch tower lodge, Black hawk state Park Rock Island, IL

im dealing with the same issues! we have one gm who lives out of town who was totally gung ho about everything and now we cant get a hold of him. his best man keeps blowing off the bach party…to the point im like you im about to step in and ask one of the other gm to plan it…my Fiance didnt have one the first time he got married i want him to have a great time. and as for the stirp club issu…seriously?..let him go if he was gonna screw a stripper he would have cheated on you by now! but yeah i feel for you!

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