(Closed) Bridsmaid/Groomsman gifts…. a dilemma

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Why do they have to be exchanged at the rehearsal dinner? If you’re worried about anyone feeling uncomfortable, I would just do them privately. Or do them at the rehearsal dinner, but don’t make an enormous production out of it. Just gather your girls together and give them their gifts. Likewise for the groomsmen.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

if you’re worried about making him look bad, you could always exchange gifts with just your bms and not at the rehearsal dinner.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

I think you are so sweet for wanting to spoil your girls 🙂 remember that they don’t expect it though so don’t go super over budget!!! Perhaps you could give the BMs a small gift at the rehearsal dinner when the GMs get theirs and then separately give them something else and tell them it’s because you appreciate them so much and you know they’ve had to do a lot more than the guys etc.

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