- 12 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
We are having adult only rehearsal dinner and wedding. One of my bridesmaids (who has 3 kids, 2 are terrors) informed me (before we had made it well known) that her husband might have to work and she might have to bring her kids to the rehearsal. (SHe is getting a babysitter for the wedding.) I responded that my Fiance already told the groomsmen that it is an adult event and they are not bringing their kids and offered to help find a babysitter. She responded that she isn’t comfortable leaving them with someone she doesn’t know and that she has left them with sitters a lot lately, so that if her husband has to work, then she doesn’t have a choice. My Fiance and I really don’t want kids there (especially ones that aren’t well-behaved). What would you do?