(Closed) BROKE UP WITH FIANCE. He is now getting married to a girl he barely knows.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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10635 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

It sounds like this is a good time for you to surround yourself with the positive people in your life.  No need to dwell on the losers.

Post # 33
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513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@jazzyrhae:  

Oh how I can relate to this also!  Sound sin many ways your describing one of my Ex’s!!

I think it hurts because even though we have moved on and know that logically it is the right and the best thing for us our heart and mind can still be emotionally invested in the person, and that takes some time to ‘move on’ from!

One of the things that really helped me to ‘move on’ was that everytime I saw him or heard about him (yes I had friends etc too that would continue to tell me about him!!) I would keep in mind ALL the bad and hurtful and mean things he had done over the years and immedietly remind myself of a few.. it served as a wonderful reminder as to WHY I was now so  much better off…

it takes time to ‘let go’ and you should allow yourself that time, but invest in YOU and your future, if anything feel sorry for the life that this girl is going to live with him and you know what that was like – do you think he has suddenly changed?  Nooo.. her life will probably be worse than the one you lived with him..keep looking Forwards and remind yourself WHY your so much better off where you are now.. 🙂

and if you feel the need to just ‘ask’ for a reminder anytime – feel free to PM me I could provide you many 🙂 

Post # 35
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Been there done that…..I’d give her a million thanks for taking him. I wish someone would have grabbed up my ex before we married!!When you meet the right one you will realize how lucky you are to have called it off before marriage.

Post # 37
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Worker bee

Coming in a bit late here but I hope you’re feeling better. You are lucky to be rid of the pair of them. You come across far too intelligent to be spending the rest of your life with such a lowlife. I think after any breakup, no matter how bad your ex may be – if there were genuine feelings there it is natural for it to bite. The fact he got engaged only WEEKS later shows how unstable this guy is. I hope you’ve cut all ties with him. If he won’t leave you alone I’d speak to the cops.  

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