(Closed) broke up

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
18615 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry you guys broke up.  If he doesn’t seem to care if you are in a relationship or not, then maybe you shouldn’t be in a relationship with him.

Post # 4
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1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I don’t really understand what you are typing… but breakups are always tough.  Sorry 🙁

Post # 5
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86 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

seriously, I do not understand what you are trying to say.

please reread what you wrote and tell me if you even understand that.

Post # 6
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570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Guys she was probably crying, and is already heartbroken, and typing isn’t the easiest thing to do when you are going through this kind of ordeal. Anyhow, to the OP, I am so sorry that you had to go through this, but really maybe it is time for you to do some true soul searching and see what is out there. If he didn’t treat you with the open trust and respect that you deserve, especially since the two of you were trying to work things out, then I would say it is best for the two of you to have your space. This might be the best thing that will happen, because it will allow you your breathing room and to figure out exactly what you need to do to either work on the relationship or put things past you and into perspective.

Good luck sweetie!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Yeah…I can’t understand what you wrote at all.

Post # 8
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403 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I can’t, either. But it’s partly the intentional abbreviations. “n e way” = anyway, b = be, u = you, cuz = because, ur = your, coo = cool. Those, I get, but I don’t know what bbm means. Plus, I think there’s a lot of slang, too, so all in all I’m sorry, but I don’t really understand what’s going on!

Whatever it is, I’m sorry you’re going through it! Hope things get better soon!

Post # 9
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1003 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

bbm=Blackberry Messenger

Sorry to hear about your break-up. *hug* Things always get better.

Post # 10
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790 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m really sorry that this happened to you. I would like to say more but like the other posters I have no clue what most of the conversation was.

Post # 11
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715 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Sorry to hear about your heartbreak.  I guess I am too old do figure out exactly what you are trying to say here…I couldn’t read the whole thing because I couldn’t follow it. 

Post # 12
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3540 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I translated it for other readers.. I think this is what shes trying to say! Translation:

Anyway thursday night came and we were in his room getting all the stuff ready for his garage sale. i say ‘open my side of the closet’,since we have been together and ive been sleeping over. i have had my side of the room. He loved me having it, anyway he starts taking all my clothes off the hangers and i got a weird vibe so i said ‘no leave them there’ he said ‘i need these for the garage sale’ i didnt argue cause i could be over thinking. I said ok.

THan we go to my clothes drawer he starts saying you dont wear this or this and starts going through my clothes and asks ‘do u want to take this’ he said ‘later’ it was all about the garage sale but not once did he mention garage sale. I ended up taking all my stuff out and i cried because it was a sign of pushing me away

From our previous fights we had before we got back together, (mind you we havent fought in a while” Anyway he was burnt out and upset i cried. I told him ‘its you pushing me away’ he said ‘i just want a stress free relationship’, dont stress its what am i doing here a garage sale  *Who knows what the op said, i have no idea on that last sentance*

Anyway the next day we were off so i just Blackberry Messaged him saying i couldnt do it.  I have been trying to make it work and he wanted to take it slow but he is just moving bckwards.  It has been 2 weeks and the wall was still up.  I just couldnt take taking it slow and felt strung along.

He ‘tweeted’ when he woke up and got my messages . i love being woken up cause he woke up to my BlackBerry messages feeling frazzled *that bit doesnt make sense either)

than he Blackberry messaged me saying I just read your messages that was it. WTF obviously i did the right thing, if he didnt seeem to be concerned you know. I just wrote a good sorry so longm he wrote its all good and i wrote ok cool 

the break up was a good thing i am scared that he will not come back though

How do i get through this?  i feel string(no idea on that word sorry) i did it cause i never used to worry about us or think if i was ever strung along or ever questioned his love. The day i did was the day i knew he even told me he was scared for a long term commitment with me again cause things would go back to the way they were.

But if he loved me he would take steps forward. Not backward.  help me. I do miss him, i know he is doing fine that he misses me, but its not enough. I want him back. I just want him to be into me ,love me again.  What do i do?

Heck that was a mission to translate…

Post # 13
Member
1213 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Wow nice job CC!

OP- I don’t have much advice, other than if a guy doesn’t have respect for you, then he doesn’t deserve you.

Post # 14
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

If you could “type” properly  (in ENGLISH) instead of “text-typing”…it would be much easier to read. (What is this world coming to?)

Word.

 

Post # 15
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695 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Complaining bees, please don’t pile on her misery with your snarkiness, if you couldn’t understand her message, from her title, she obviously broke up and is in an upset state.

Sweet Maple, I’m so sorry, but it sounds as if it were for the best. I hope you have lots of support through this tough time…

Post # 16
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711 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I definitely do not think you should worry about him coming back. If you tell him you want to break up and he says “Oh ok”…that says a LOT right there. I say move out, and move on!

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