(Closed) Broken engagement 4.5 months from wedding

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 31
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Helper bee

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Anonymousbee330:  as PP’s have already said, you are fabulous, handling this like a class act, and will absolutely come out on top.

I just wanted to add that choosing to share here was so smart and also kind. Smart because you picked the classy, and easier to move on route of venting to the bees rather than stoop to his level and gossiping to everyone you know. Kind (and this is really why I wanted to comment) because sharing something that is painful and difficult for you with the bee is not easy, but there are so many hurt/confused/and scared bees who show up here with similar situations and want to know how to handle it and that it is going to be ok. You provided them with that and it takes courage and I guarantee will be helpful to many bees that I have seen post similar or slightly diff issues who are also dealing with broken engagements or marriages. 

This is what the bee IS (or should be) about and I think you are awesome for it! And to the other bees giving support, you are awesome too and I hope more people get support like this and not only advice on centerpieces  😉

Proud to be a part of the hive today!

Post # 32
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Newbee

Anonymousbee330:  I know it might be humiliating to admit to your family that you were cheated on, but the only thing that is really protecting is him, not your pride. I’d suggest telling your close family members and explain how scared you are about your precarious living situation and see if they offer to help you move home. If they don’t offer then just ask and then pay them back when you can. No one should be forced to stay in a situation like that.

Because to me this: He claims I can “stay as long as I need” and supposedly “feels awful” but I don’t trust him one bit. 

Sounds a lot like “I hope I can sleep with you again if you are feeling sad, desperate, obligated (ICK!) and/or I’m drunk.”

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