(Closed) Broken engagement… heartbroken:(

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

That is all very sad.  No advice… just compassion.  it will get better someday… but, for now, I think how you feel is pretty normal.  

Post # 4
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9548 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh!!! I’m so sorry! Any breakup is  difficult but it’s harder after an engagement. And even more so after a long term relationship. But it will get easier. It sounds corny, but time helps. Lean on your friends and family. Get out and do something. Take a class or see a show or whatever you enjoy. There’s no magical thing you can do to get through this. You just have to tough it out until it gets easier. Which it will. Just try not to wallow.

Post # 5
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8444 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@lilly29:  *HUGS*  Like other bees said, it just takes time.  Even though it hurts now, things will get better.  Be sure to keep yourself busy with hobbies, work, friends and family.  Just remember you will get to marry your best friend, you just have to wait a little bit to find him.  Best of luck!

Post # 6
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342 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I was in a long term relationship around the same age. We weren’t engaged but talked about it. We broke up and it was very hard. The only thing that helped was time. Tears. But time. Finding my joy and who I was outside of him was important. Now, I’m happily engaged to a man that loves me for me and adds to my joy. It May seem like the end of the world now, but each day it’ll get better. 

Post # 7
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213 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I’m so sorry. 🙁 It is so hard to lose someone you love…especially when they have been your best friend for so long as well. Give yourself time to mourn and reach out to family and friends. Use this as a time to get know yourself better and pursue activities you’ve always wanted but never have. Things will get better with time!

Post # 9
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79 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@lilly29:  It will get easier…I am currently facing the same thing. My fiance and i are planning to call off our engagement. WE have been together for 9 years. I cant sleep eat or do anything. I miss him already. Its been only a week but it has been the toughest week of my life. We will both get passed this!!! One day at a time. Cry if you need to…scream if you need too…you will be ok…I truly believe that i will get passed this…somehow. I still cant believe its happened to me…hugs!!

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