- 3 years ago
GTFO!!!! Of all of it!!!
GTFO!!!! Of all of it!!!
If you don’t believe in abortion, it’s incredibly irresponsible to not use birth control. What on earth were you thinking?? This is how young girls ruin their lives.
What about adoption? This is not a good situation in which to raise a child, PERIOD! This would be the best way to give you and the baby the best chance at a happy, fulfilling life. You both deserve that! 🙂
Otherwise, I don’t see a good solution to this disaster of a situation, but I will say that being honest with everyone involved is always the best way to improve a very bad situation. Good luck.
You can’t just wave a wand and decide who will be the father figure to your child.
I highly, highly doubt that your Fiance will ever be a father figure to this child. If you’re going to bring this baby into the world, you need to prepare for the absolute worst case scenario, which is you raising him or her entirely on your own. It is extremely unlikely your Fiance will be in the picture given that (1) you cheated on him with his much older uncle and this baby is his uncle’s and (2) he has drug problems and may be in and out of prison for most of the child’s life. And I wouldn’t bank on the uncle being an involved parent if he’s the type to think carrying on an affair with his nephew’s fiancé nearly 20 years his junior is a good idea.
Can’t believe you’re still calling your Fiance your Fiance. Sorry to be harsh but why would he want to be with you after this? I believe in abortion opposed to screwing up another human beings life that didn’t ask for it. It’s one thing for life to happen after ideal circumstances were created for the child, but it’s completely another to subject an innocent being to a shit show. This is 100% a shit show and you can’t fix this. You should have never slept with his uncle and I wouldn’t have stayed with someone in jail for drugs either. What a way to start a new life. No thank you.
Move out of his parents house, get an abortion, come clean. End of story.
Sorry I can’t reply to each of your comments as it will take me forever but I will also NEVER consider adoption. I intend to raise my child with or without my Fiance or his uncle.
Secondly both my Fiance and his uncle are great people, they have made some bad decisions in life but overall are very kind and caring people.
I will also never move back in with my parents as they were verbally abusive and will never accept the fact that I am pregnant. I will move out by myself when I am ready but right now I am not financially ready to move out and find a place on my own.
Oh girl. This is a mess. A MESS. Your finace’s uncle is an AWFUL man, and you are awful for doing this to your fiance. That being said, you are INSANELY young to get married, plus, quite frankly, don’t marry a druggie. You may love him and all that, but he is bad news. This whole FAMILY is bad news.
You need to get out of that house. As soon as humanly possible. You not being able to afford it isn’t an excuse. Find a friend to stay with. A relative. A woman’s shelter. You cannot stay in that house. Move on from all this.
You say you want to raise this child…but seriously think about adoption or abortion, because you have no idea what you’re in for.
I said abortion, not adoption. I wouldn’t bring a child into that crazy shitshow of a situation.
OP, sounds like you’re not going to move out, you’re not going to have an abortion or consider adoption, and you’re going to have and raise the baby no matter what and no matter who is or is not in the baby’s life…… so what advice are you looking for exactly? 🤨
I’m against abortion, but in your case I would do it. Or adoption. Or move to another state, something! I wish much luck to you, you are about to ruin your life 🙁
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