- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
It’s a long story 🙁
My fiancé brother got married 3 years ago and my fiancé was his best man. They have been so close for their whole life’s. About a year ago my further brother in law split from his wife and moved in with his new girlfriend who is a few years older than him and has a kid from a previous relationship. My fiancé kind drifted away from his brother as he didn’t think it was right to just walk out on your wife for someone else ( he also studies full time at Uni and had little social life) but they worked together and as far as I know still spent time together 3 or 4 times a week. I have remained friends with my further brother in laws ex wife because we had been close for so long and we didn’t want to affect our friendship- we didbt really speech about my further brother in law ( which I was happy about) I thought I was doing a great jomy tying to be support to my future and still be friends with his ex wife. But my soon to be brother in laws girlfriend did not think so. She is rude to me when I try and talk to her or just doesn’t talk to me. She sent me a email saying I was fake, immature and was trying to bring the ex wife into the family! I was so shocked!! Apparently my fiancé and I ran away from them at the beach and didnt talk to her after she walked away from us? None of which is true. For our engagement party we want to invite them and his ex wife as she is our friend and thought they could all be mature about it. My soon to be brother in law and his girlfriend said they couldn’t come cause no one likes them and treat them fake. We just let them go. Now my fiancé doesn’t know if he should ask his brother to be his grooms man. My soon to be parent in law don’t think they will even come to the wedding !
Please help! I feel so awful for my fiancé and his brother being so rude and to be honist ( sounding like a bridzilla ) I don’t want his girlfriend to come if she doesn’t even like us