(Closed) brought up engagment talk and ended up in a blow out !! why are guys soo AHHH***

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@chesseplease: Not sure I’m following what you are saying 100%… You had a planned engagement date? Like he was going to propose on June 10th?

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

He probably has a timeline, pushing him won’t help it along. Just be patient! If you are on the same page in your relationship it will happen soon enough. : )

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I know it is hard. 

I have been there : )

Have faith, and hugs.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2011

…If he got into a car accident, I imagine that might be a little bit of a strain financially. Do you really want him to ask you if you pressured him into it?

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Are you planning on leaving him if he doesn’t propose by June 30th?

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

Be patient and hang in there.  It will happen soon!  Don’t bug him too much. . .you don’t want to ruin any surprises he has planned!!!!

P.S.  Keep us posted!

Post # 14
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Helper bee

@ChicChick: Ditto to your statement.

Virtual *hugs*. Hang in there. I think he will do it by the end of the month. Keep quiet and be yourself, the woman he feel in love with, to try to make it easier on him in case he has something planned. Then once the time is up you have every right to blow up if he hasn’t stuck to HIS promise.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

Girl, I have been there and it sucks!! For some reason, whenever I would talk with my SO, it would end up in a huge fight and it was horrible! He was dead set on the proposal being a complete surprise and I was dead set on having the engagement be a joint decision, so you can imagine how difficult our conversations were…

It sounds like your man is trying to throw you off a bit to make sure it is a surprise…I know it’s soo hard but try to be patient and trust your partner. It definitely sounds like it is coming imminently so hang in there…It will be totally worth it when he does propose!

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