(Closed) B*tches be crazy!!! [Vent about bridesmaids hurting my feelings]

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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161 posts
Blushing bee

@brandybelle:  I’m sorry but to me, this is ridiculous! IT IS A DRESS!!! Why can’t they suck it up and wear what YOU want on YOUR wedding day? You could put me in a garbage bag if that’s the look you wanted for your wedding and I would gladly wear it with no complaints. Maybe that’s just me, but I mean…COME ON! Stick up for yourself. 

Post # 4
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220 posts
Helper bee

I understand you completely! and its YOUR wedding. They should wear what YOU want since you said you would help pay. If they want to wear something you dont like then THEY should cough up the money. However, they should respect your wishes if you don’t like the dress being too showy up top. thats not right.

Post # 5
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1549 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

well… don’t know what other issues you had about picking things that you dont feel like you havent had a say in your wedding, but i think that if you dont find the dress the girls like horrendous, let them have it.

With the bridesmaid you’re paying for her dress, tell her you’ll pay only half of it or that you wont pay alterations.

I hope i helped.

Post # 6
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161 posts
Blushing bee

I was gonna keep typing, but accidentally submitted…anyway, I was going to say it’s an honor to be asked to be in someone’s wedding. Maybe you should let them know that you chose them to be bridesmaids because they are so special to you, etc. but that they are making you feel taken advantage of and if they can’t come to terms with you they should step down as bridesmaids?

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