(Closed) Bucket List

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

This is an interesting question – I had never thought about it! Anything that I wanted to get done sans my Fiance was done long before he came along…so now we’re concentrating on the POST-wedding bucket list and all the awesome stuff that we will do together!

Post # 4
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9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

No pre-wedding bucket list for us.  I have one in general for life though.

Post # 5
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3471 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

1. Graduate college. (Completed 12/2010) 

2. Buy a house. (Completed 7/2011)

 

#1 was in place long before I met the man of my dreams, but it was important to me to complete that part of my life first, before moving on to the next stage. But Fiance was also very storngly in favor of this for his own reasons.

#2 was a joint item.  My Fiance has some very old fashioned views (which I LOVE!) about being able to care for his family, provide a good life, etc. Hence his agreement on #1, so this was very important to him as well– we wanted to have our life established and settled before we got married, because neither of us felt comfortable throwing a party that’s all about spending the rest of our lives together, until we were ready to start that life together– having to wait another year or two to buy a house after marriage seemed like too much waiting– so we decided to do all the waiting on the front end.  Now, we own our house, we are both licensed in our respective fields and have good jobs– and we aregetting married! 

Post # 6
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14445 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

No, I didnt see the wedding as stopping point that could prevent me from doing anything.  I have a pre-baby bucket list though.

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