- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
All of these lonely nights where I can’t sleep, because I’m not having to get up at three am…and the Fiance has to get up at 4am-ish. Here I am on the computer looking at wedding stuff at twelve thirty am! I just stumbled upon this website….It seems more “real life” of what I was looking for. Too bad we don’t have the house in South Carolina anymore.
I really think we’re going to be getting married here, in Massachusetts. We have a few options: Maryland Uncle Jimmy’s ( beautiful trees; creek; hills; inground pool; beautiful flowers awesome covered area for some food to be consumed) *some of our relatives don’t know that we’ve thought of these places* Brides Aunt & Uncle in Ohio ( beautiful back yard, with pine trees and some room to set up tables to eat). We really haven’t thought of other places family and friends wise……
Him and I have discussed this several times. It’s pretty much come down to, “Jamie, wherever you want it…is fine with me. I kinda just wish it was over with.” I don’t want it to be like that though. I would love to have a casual get together wedding ceremony. Reunion-ish. At that border of * she’s the bride and he’s the groom, you can tell cause they’re more dressed up than everyone else*
It’s just hard to find a park that even rents out their land for a while.
I’m kinda half tempted to just ask some farmer if I can rent their land for a half an hour and then just have a beer/jelloshot get together afterwards?
I guess I thought I knew what I wanted, but If it’s not in the budget for “our wedding” it’s not going to happen. I know money surely doesn’t grow on trees, and obviously the economy isn’t freggin’ helpin’ so that our families can help more than they want to. Family members tell me to “quit worrying, everything will fall into eachother. I’m sure it will be beautiful no matter what. Give it time, you’ll find the perfect place.” I’m the BIGGEST worrier EVER! I don’t want to spend out the ass on things either. I just think some weddings are too crazy, spending thousands of dollars on that dress you’ll wear one day! insane. Everyone has their own opinions.
I have so many ideas, I know how creative Im or how creative I can be. I just need some inspiration.
Maybe I’m just in the slumps because I haven’t had work in such a while, and I need to get out of this computer world.
Maybe I should just tell all of our guests the date. I’m not sending out the Save the dates anymore, even though they’re completed. Due to postage going up, and having to get new envelopes because I didn’t think we were going to move so quickly and put our address on them. Hell there’s only like 114 at the max of guests…Alot of people here at venues will only allow a minimum of like 80-100-125. And if they don’t have a people minimum they have a Food order minimum of like 4,000 that’s a grand less than our budget. In that case we’d have No Marriage Licence, No Rings, No MC no Dj (FI wants to use ipod anyway), No photographer, no dress, No cake. How nice would it be to win the freggin’ lottery now.
TOLD YOU I WORRY TOO MUCH!