(Closed) Bummed…….

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

Maybe she was whining about a ring, gave him an ultimatum and when he didn’t act on it, she ditched him?  Maybe he didn’t believe she’d leave if he didn’t come through on a ring?  What reason did she give him?  There has to be some reason!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh no! Poor him!
But, just like BanditGirl, the first thing I thought was maybe she wanted him to commit and he wouldn’t. Hopefully it all works out.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I agree with the other bees, feels like she really wanted a ring.  I’m sure your wedding also may have put pressure on him to propose already!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

It could be for a whole host of reasons! Just because we’re all wedding-ed up, doesn’t mean the rest of the world is. I just don’t think it’s useful for anyone to speculate on the OP’s fiance’s cousin’s ex-girlfriend’s motivations.

I hope you are able to support your fiance’s cousin during his relationship breakdown.

RainStorm. xx

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

That really sucks!! Im sorry 🙁 I have my fiance’s brothers’ girlfriend in my wedding and that was always in the back of my mind! So far so good….they are still going strong! But it would really suck if she broke up with him 🙁 So I totally understand how you feel!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Why are you out a Bridesmaid?  Were you not really friends with her? 

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper

ya i didn’t get she wanted a ring from that story!  plus if she did, wouldn’t make sense to wait until after their anniversary as that would be a good time to propose?  maybe she ruined it for herself!  

i also wonder why do you have to be out a BM?  i mean i wouldn’t jump to that conclusion. i get there could be awkwardness and all that, but your wedding is 11 months away. lots of time to figure things out.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

I wouldn’t be upset until you hear her side… eight years is a really long time to date with no ring. Plus, you don’t have to be out a bridesmaid. If you legitimately like her, why not keep her in the wedding party? They can both put on their big boy pants and deal with each other for the day.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You also never know if they are just having their own “tiff” and will get back together… they just may be working through something.  Your wedding is a little less than a year away – you never know what will happen!

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