(Closed) Bummed (only a little)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3769 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to request that he let you know he’s okay.  It would’ve been maybe too clingy had you NOT previously discussed him sending a text and you were worried, but it’s totally understandable that you told him to send you a text, he never did, you assumed something bad could’ve happened (because if he were fine, he would’ve sent you a text!) and ended up worrying all night, and are now sad/disappointed.  I think it sucks that he called you clingy!

Post # 5
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Your request was not at all clingy. Clingy would be texting him the entire time he was out with his buddies, not sending one text to say goodnight and make sure he was alright, especially when you agreed to that end of night text.

Post # 6
1526 posts
Bumble bee

Nah, you did your part. He should’ve texted you, but guys suck at stuff like that usually. It just doesn’t occur to them like it does to us. I’m sorry that he’s being so insensitive. 🙁

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