Post # 1
So I have to admit I was kind of hoping for something sparkly for Christmas. SO had made what I thought were some hints about it. Today he just asked me for my clothing size. All I thought was uggg dont want a shirt want a ring LOL. Have to admit kind of dissapointed. I told myself I wasn’t going to be but no matter what part of me still is. AHHH so the waiting continues BOO!
Post # 3
Sorry. I know how hard it is to wait at this time of year. My SO would get me the best gifts when I was waiting so I had to be happy but all I really wanted was a ring. I hope your proposal comes soon!! Merry Christmas!
Post # 4
I know how you feel! I thought for sure on our 7 year anniversary he would but nope… So I’m going to try not to get to worked up for our 8 year which is in March…
Anyway do you think he was trying to throw you off with the clothing size?
Post # 5
I totally hear ya! A proposal is all I want too, but I don’t think it will happen for Christmas. My guy told me last weekend not to expect one for Christmas. AND yet he told me weeks ago “I’m only getting you one thing for Christmas” and “I’ve spent a lot of money on Christmas this year.” It’s such a roller coaster of emotion. I know he was way more frugal than usual with the families gifts this year, but that could just be because he’s trying to get ahead financially.
If you read the last thread I started, you will see how frustrated I’ve been.
Anyway, at least we have good men, right??!
Post # 6
Last night when my SO and I were talking about christmas and an engagement he grabbed my hand and said, we’re gonna have a really nice Christmas and a nice New Years..and then a nice engagement. It will be nice to spread out the good things:) I know that doesnt really help because I’m still hoping for a Christmas proposal lol. Just wanted to say..I’m there with ya!
Post # 7
Thanks guys. It doesn’t help that a few people around us have made comments (not directly to me, but I overheard): “Are you sure he loves her enough?” I was VERY hurt by that comment. Of course SO loves me and why would they say something like that? He was out of work for part of the year and is still financially recovering from that. I think the comments from other people hurt even more than then delay in proposal because deep down I know the proposal will come most people don’t know he already has the ring.
Post # 8
You never know! He could be throwing you off his trail. Either way, hope you guys have a lovely holiday together!
Post # 9
This time of year seems to be the worst. Cheer up and know allllllllll these other girls are in the same boat!!
Post # 10
i feel the same way. even though i know a xmas proposal isn’t going to happen but i still can’t help feeling disappointed.