Bustle made photos look bad

posted 3 months ago in Dress
Post # 2
2693 posts
Sugar bee

Why are you still ruminating about every. single. thing. that went wrong??

Post # 3
4498 posts
Honey bee

I think you must have really boring wedding photos if people are focusing on the bustle.  I’m usually paying attention to the looks on people’s faces in photos, not the backs of their skirts.  

Did your photographer only take ass-shots of you?

Post # 4
699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018 - UK

I don’t think anyone else will focus on details like that in the same way you are. I think we tend to be the most critical of our own pictures, I very much doubt anyone else will give it a second thought.

Post # 5
1083 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

annabananabee :  Ah yes I have heard of those types of photographers. They only ever take photos of butt stuff. You usually find them lurking behind a KFC at 12pm on a Tuesday.

Post # 6
4529 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

sbl99 :  lol… I’m more worried that I’ll see my ass on ‘Today Tonight’ when they do those diet/overweight segments and film everyday overweight Australians going about their business in the CBD. They always cut off the heads but they zoom into stomachs and jiggly bums. Im an owner of both of those so you can image my fear of seeing myself on a TV news segment! ๐Ÿ˜‚

The photographer at KFC can take as many shots of my ass as long as they buy me a bucket!! ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—

Post # 7
5563 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

You seriously need to stop with this. It isn’t healthy to dwell or obsess over something to this extent, start a hobby with your new husband and stop thinking about every little wedding detail. 

I know it is easier said than done but honestly you are ruining the memories of your own wedding.

Post # 8
1083 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

cmsgirl :  I’ve never told anyone this but THAT IS LEGIT ONE OF MY BIGGEST FEARS. Like, turning on a bit of Tracy Grimshaw to see yourself as the poster child for too many nuggs in those unicorn tights you “though looked cute at the time” but actually looked like an over-stretched rubber balloon just before it explodes from being a bit too trigger happy with the hand-pump.


Post # 9
8525 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

bahhwedding22 :  without meaning to sound harsh, even if it was a big deal, the wedding is over, what can you realistically do to change it? Nothing. 

Post # 10
566 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

sbl99 :  just commenting to say I have also thought about this being one of my greatest fears… I always make a comment when they zoom in on ppls butts thinking thank god that isn’t me lol. 

Post # 11
91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2020

Photoshop!! ๐Ÿ˜› If it bothers you that much, a few clicks can fix little things like that.   

Post # 12
750 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - Country/barn

bahhwedding22 :  I doubt it’s as bad as you think it is. As another pp stated, there’s nothing you can do now to change how things went on your bid day. Just try to focus on all the positive things and the way you felt marrying your husband! Otherwise it’ll drive you crazy. No one else will even remember the things you’re worried about. 

Post # 13
189 posts
Blushing bee

They probably told you to keep it up for the first look so it didnt get ruined and mucky for the walk down the aisle. Would you be more mad if your dress was gross and muddy for that??? 

Post # 14
2414 posts
Buzzing bee

Pretty sure your marriage is still valid, even if your bustle looked crappy.   

Post # 15
8320 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

So funny, you made me literally lol. Surprised my little dog no end. 


cmsgirl :  

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