(Closed) Busty Girl Probs :( Too much?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

omg i don’t think that’s too much at all! You look great ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 3
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Busy bee

As a “so busty my bra size isn’t even sold in most stores” girl, I can relate. The struggle is real! But girl, you looked GREAT! I don’t think there was anything inappropriate about the dress or the cleavage. You definitely did not look floozy. I’d say classy and romantic and maybe a little Marilyn Monroe old Hollywood glam. And if anyone thought you looked inappropriate, well I think they were wrong.

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

From one big boob girl to another, I think you look great in the pictures! I definitely wouldn’t think you looked like you were letting it all hang out.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

lumosplease:  I feel your pain! I am a bridemaid in a friend’s wedding and went dress shopping for her wedding today. Two of the girls put on this super cute strapless dress and even tho I know I can’t wear strapless, I tried it on. I then stomped my foot because of course it didn’t look good so I got one with a sheer chest covering a sweetheart neckline. And even then I asked the bride if it was too much boobage and she said no so I got it. I love having my boobs but I wish I could wear some of the cute tops that my smaller chested friends can wear ๐Ÿ™

So, that being said, I honestly can see where you’re worried (I would be second guessing myself) but you don’t look trashy at all. Your dress is a classy dress and it’s designed to show a little cleavage but in a respectable way. You look absolutely beautiful in it so if you’re asking my opinion, I’d say send your Thank You cards out with pride because you look stunning and not the least bit “easy” or “attention seeking” ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

I think you look great!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2016

I’m also busty, but I think you looked great. It wasn’t too much at all. Don’t take this the wrong way, but your boobs don’t even look that big in the pics. It looks very tasteful, stop being so hard on yourself!

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2006

You look beautiful!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Your breasts looked classy, elegant and sexy all at once and that IS hard to pull off.

And omg woman, cup size has nothing to do with decency! Those looks you get? They’re admiring, envious and wistful looks. 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

You look great!

I am in the same boat, and even had a customer complain that I was showing too much skin, which lead to me having to buy a new set of work tops because I wasn’t allowed to wear v necks anymore. And the worst thing is that the things that cover are the least flattering things on busty women. Makes you look bustier and frumpy. 

As hard as it is to do, I just wear what I want and try not to care about what others think (except for at work obviously) If they don’t like how I’m dressed they can not look at me.

You look great though. I don’t think your dress was too revealing at all

Post # 11
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Busy bee

OMG, totally not “too much”! To me you look very beautiful and elegant. 

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I feel you lol Same issue here . I’m medium-sized size 6/7 street 8 bridal but have 36 dd chest. By The Way u looked absolutely gorgeous.  

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

You look beautiful! I honestly expected to see pics of some enormous breasts falling out of a teeny dress lol! You look classy and have an amazing figure. I DO understand being concerned though; I have a small frame (5’4, 26″ waist, 34″ hips) and large breasts (34DD) and worry ALL the time about if I “look” cheap if I try to wear something cute! Not to mention that if something fits my waist or hips its WAY too tight up top. I get how you feel but you truly looked stunning!

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 2 months ago by  UnicornKitten.
Post # 14
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Blushing bee

Not too much AT ALL. 

If you are really worried about it in your photos, maybe ask your photographer to minimise the shadows in that area? I wouldn’t change a thing about your pics or your thankyou cards, but I know how these things we perceive can play on our minds. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Laur12: I think you care too much what other people think. It’s a deep v-neck so you’ll show cleavage. Pretty straight forward.

If everyone who matters loved you in your dress and you felt great, who cares if someone thinks you look cheap. The only person whose opinion matters is yours.

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