(Closed) But, I don’t wanna!

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
7289 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Pinksapphire: Going to a wedding angry or out of anything other than love is probably not a good idea! Just be “busy” or have an “emergency” . I’m sorry you have to deal with everything going down!

Post # 4
47188 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If you can’t support the marriage and have such negative feelings, then don’t go the wedding or the shower.

You can always be busy on the day of the shower.

I hope you would at least have the common courtesy to let her know that you will be unable to make it to the wedding after all. Guests who rsvp yes and don’t show , cost money in most cases.

Post # 5
972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

ugh she sounds awful! I’d avoid it at all costs

Post # 6
1199 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

That stinks!  I wouldn’t go to the shower or wedding.  I’d still let her know you can’t make it to the wedding though out of courtesy.

Post # 7
1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Pinksapphire: she is a BRIDEZILLA and its probably best that you not go to any of her wedding events.


Post # 8
7371 posts
Busy Beekeeper

You guys aren’t close, you don’t support the union, and she’s being gift grabby– so I don’t see the issue here. If you don’t want to, then don’t go.

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