(Closed) But I dont want to name a MOH… =(

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
519 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

It is totally ok! It is your wedding, do what you want! I am having an uneven number of bridesmaids and groomsmen, and some people think this is funny, but I just don’t care! In the end, I don’t think anyone will really notice/care/remember. 

Post # 4
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I went through something similar. Honestly, you don’t have to “pick one” unless you want to.  I did end up picking a Maid/Matron of Honor though so that one person could be the go to person for showers and things the day of the wedding.  At first I felt like I was picking a favorite person out of my four best girls and I hated that, but they are there to support you and no one will be angry for whatever you decide.

Could you just have them announced as “your best women” instead of singling one of them out?  

Post # 5
2600 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Totally Ok.  We don’t have a Maid/Matron of Honor or a Best Man. 

If he’s just put off by it for introductions or ‘pairing’ I can sort of understand if he’s never seen it before.  (Though not cool of him to make you paranoid!)

Are your sides even?  Or do you have more guys vs girls?  You can do Bridesmaid soandso escorted by the very Best Man soandso or if you’ve got more guys, our lovely bridesmainds soandso and soandso with the very Best Man soandso. 

Definitely fine, may just be new to him 🙂

Good luck!

Post # 7
2600 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

It’s not weird at all.  I’ve been a wedding coordinator for years and years, and you aren’t the first one to introduce people as Bridesmaid so and so with Best Man so and so.


Just tell him that’s what you want and followup with him and your coordinator if you’ve got one to make sure they go over it, too. 

Don’t let your vendors bully you into stuff 🙂 YOUR wedding, YOUR ideas!

Post # 8
2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

We have a Maid/Matron of Honor but no best man. It’ll be okay.

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