(Closed) Wedding Gift Help, Please

posted 8 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Honestly.  I would still get her something for her wedding day…unless that is, that you told her that it was her wedding gift?  if you did then i am sure it wouldn’t be a problem or funny if you didnt take anything to her wedding.  But if you didnt mention to her that it was her wedding gift – early, then i would suggest buying something small that you know she’ll need.

Post # 5
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13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

@PrncssDva: Even if you told you me you weren’t going to be able to make my wedding and then gave me a gift at my shower, I’d never think that that gift was a wedding gift.  I’d think it was a shower gift.  So unless you explicitly told this girl “Here is my wedding gift to you”, she is probably thinking the same thing.

I’d get her an additional gift for the wedding.  Plus, if you’d have known before you went to the shower that you could go to the wedding too, you’d still have gotten her something for both the shower and the wedding, wouldn’t you?  It’s no different now.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I actually think you don’t need to buy her another gift at all. it sounds like you bought her a really generous gift for her shower–one that is more wedding-ish than the typical shower gift, in my experience, anyway. If I were your friend, I definitely would not expect another gift–especially since you told her it’s her wedding gift. 

Post # 8
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552 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

If it was me I’d prob. give her a gift card to where ever she was registered at, in her wedding card to bring to the wedding.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Well depends on how generous you were with your shower gifts.  If you get a gift card, is it from both you and your SO?  If so, then I’d say 100.

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