(Closed) Buying a house on my own ? :(

posted 6 years ago in Home
Post # 3
630 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My husband and I had to do this also. He was self-employed when we bought our house but I was able to qualify on my own so we went this route, but we had the house picked out already so we weren’t buying something we didn’t want.

If you find a house you both like, that you can buy on your own, I would say why not?

Post # 4
556 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My husband and I did this also. I think it’s fine. We love our house!

Post # 5
11271 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

it’s a good idea instead of waiting to buy.

keep in mind if your name alone is on the house deed and the mortgage, legally you alone will be responsible for it.  have you considered a legal document stating the terms should anything happen.  you may want to consult a lawyer for this.


Post # 6
230 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I might be wrong- but I think all the means is that only your income can count toward figuring out what you are qualified to spend on a house.  When you actually decide to buy a home you can still put your husband’s name on the deed.  Good luck with house hunting! 

Post # 10
864 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think anything acquired during the marriage he could fight for.

Post # 11
11271 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@catracha:  i agree with making sure that you are protected should anything happen.  if only your name is on the mortgage, put only your name on the title.  otherwise, if you ever did split up, you would be financially responsible for his half of the house.

Post # 12
418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If you’re married and then purchase the home and put it only in your name, I’d think he’d still have a right to something with the house because it was acquired during the marriage. At least that’s what I heard.

Post # 13
3586 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2000

Beware. If you two split after buying the house, YOU are on the hook for the entire mortgage. That may be fine if your husband’s income is just extra, but can you afford to live in the house if he’s not there, providing money on top of your income?

Edited to add: I see that you’ve thought of this, good for you!


Post # 14
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

@mypinkshoes:  I agree.  I would only have the home in my name if the mortgage is in my name to be super safe.

Post # 16
1695 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

My husband and I did this.  But my husband has rights to the house because we we acquired the house during our marriage and Texas is a community property state. 

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