(Closed) Cake in face! How do you feel about it?

posted 7 years ago in Reception
  • poll: How do you feel about cake being smushed in your face?
    Go for it- It's all in fun! : (31 votes)
    9 %
    Just deal with it. : (12 votes)
    3 %
    Not going to happen! : (315 votes)
    88 %
  • Post # 62
    1998 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    NO! I hate cake smashing, I find it messy and disrespectful, not only to your spouse but – please don’t laugh – to the food too. With so many people in this world starving, ruining perfectly good food is certainly not something I’d be comfortable doing. 

    Post # 63
    1176 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Hell no. That shit is just crass.

    Post # 64
    4272 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Eh I am whatever about it. We didn’t do it.

    Post # 65
    6256 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    I don’t think either of us would love doing this, so it’s probably going to be a no

    Post # 66
    4958 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    I wouldn’t want an entire piece of cake on my face, but I’m not totally opposed to a little bit of icing. 

    Post # 67
    8036 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    @HVbride:  I would be pissed off. It’s all in good fun yes, but personally I find it dumb and wouldn’t be happy after paying for hair/makeup/dress etc. I don’t find it a rude custom per se, I just wouldn’t want to partake!

    Just like I find it hard to understand trash the dress sessions when you pay so much for the dress!

    Post # 68
    1841 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @joya_aspera:  This exactly! We have the utmost respect for each other and smearing cake all over my loves face is not my idea of fun. 

    Post # 69
    2515 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    @JackiBean:  i’m anti both. i didn’t spend all that money on a dress just to go and ruin it. what a waste!

    Post # 70
    170 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Im considering skipping the cake cutting period because at fis birthday last year  he smushed a cupcake in my face so then I threw cake at him and it turned into a 10 person cake fight….

    Post # 71
    660 posts
    Busy bee

    Hell to the know… I ain’t paying for my hair and make-up, dress only for some bloody cake to go ruin it all…. come end of the night, when I’m too drunk and tired to care, every one can have a food fight and we can all jump in the pool – lol.

    Post # 72
    252 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    don’t like it don’t get it.  and thankfully, neither does my Fiance so it won’t be happening.

    Post # 73
    525 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Isn’t the point to feed each other the cake, not smush it? We’re going to feed each other cake.. but we’re not going to smush it at each other. Sure, a little cake and icing might get on my face and his face, but if I ate it myself, it would haev the same end result.

    We’re also not doing cake cutting until later in the evening, so at that point, it’s not going to matter much about the makeup.


    Post # 74
    11377 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    We didn’t do it. Niether of us wanted to, just because. We were all dressed up, we didn’t want to worry about the clean up after, and it just isn’t very us.

    Do we act goofy with each other alone? Yes! But in public, not so much. lol

    I am nuteral about it though. If someone else wants to do it, sure–Why not? As long as both have agreed it is okay. But when one says no, and the other does it anyway. No. Just no.

    Post # 75
    2437 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @HVbride:  i am serving cupcakes, i do not even plan on having a special time set aside forcake. I’m just going to announce cake is served.

    Post # 76
    648 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I think it’s juvenile and it definitely won’t be happening at my wedding.

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