Post # 1
So I met this guy online and he happens to be in the army stationed in Germany. He is the guy I plan on spending the rest of my life with and we have already discussed getting married in december this year so we will be less than a year . He is there until late 2018 then he knows he will be leaving to go somewhere else so I was wondering if there is anyway for me to join him in Germany and get command sponsorship or is it pointless and we should just wait till he is out of Army in 2019?
Post # 2
Ummm. This sounds like you haven’t even met this guy. This is the worst idea ever.
Post # 3
How about you fly to meet him first? Before any huge commitments
Post # 4
Have you met this guy in person? Are you going to meet him for the first time in December when you plan to marry? I hope you understand this is not reasonable.
Is that you in your profile picture? You seem to be very young. You do have time to wait until 2019 when he is out of the army. Until then you can meet up, spend time together (except for online) and know each other better.
Post # 5
HAHAHA! x2 Military wife here, too many people do this in the military… and get divorced shortly after
Post # 6
- Wedding: June 2018 - Omaha, NE
According to your other thread you’re engaged, so you should probably talk to him?
Post # 7
Yes you should wait. Wait till you meet him. Wait till you know him. Wait till you are mature. Wait till you have lived your life. Wait until you realize what a bad idea this is.