(Closed) Call me a bridezilla Ak bridezilla

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Try to focus on what is important, your wedding is a few hours on one day, your marriage and family relatiinships is for the rest of your life.

Things WILL go wrong on your wedding day (and leading up to it) you just need to remind yourself that in the grand scheme of things the marriage and your relationships are WAY more important than the actual wedding day.

I never got so mad that I threw my ring at Darling Husband or took it off in anger, that would be a major problem for us.

It is very easy to get caught up in the wedding and lose focus that the important part is the marriage that follows.

Post # 4
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1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It sounds like you guys have a history of an on-again-off-again relationship. I think that makes things hard, because after you’ve broken up once (or called off one engagement) it’s always in the back of your mind that you can walk away from this relationship (or that they can) and that can make it very difficult to trust and fully commit. That you *know* your behavior isn’t rational and it’s all out of proportion to what sets you off suggests to me that there’s something deeper going on that you don’t have a handle on. 

It doesn’t sound like you’ve bought into the self-obsessed, entitled “It’s MY DAY” marketing myth and started pulling crap on people because you’ve decided you’re exempt from basic manners and courtesy–that’s “bridezilla”–so I think you should think some about what might be going on under the surface. Try writing it out in a journal, or a letter to yourself, or an anonymous post here, if you want?

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