(Closed) Call off the entire thing? So upset and confused.(long)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Wedding planning is indeed expensive and adds up quickly!

Like other posters, I agree that I would talk with the planner, and if she can’t help get back under budget, I’d fire her. She’s supposed to lower your stress– not add to it. I’d also tell her that I’m not interested in hiring any of her friends (since it seems suspicious that she’s trying to get you to hire friends instead of looking out for your budget).

Have you spoken to her?

 

Post # 33
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473 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

First of all the price for the wedding planner is way too much considering the budget. This planner also manipulated you into paying for a very expensive photographer!! Sounds like all the problems are due to the planner and maybe it was a mistake to hire one in the first place??

Post # 34
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2093 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MUAbride2be:  I like option C.

It’s your money. YOU decide where it goes. Not your wedding planner. Remember, she’s in the business of making money off your wedding. 

Post # 37
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3682 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MUAbride2be:  If you break up with your wedding planner will you get any money back? How much have you already paid her? If you only want to spend 15-18k, having a $3600 wedding planner is a big chunk of the budget.

Post # 39
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3682 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MUAbride2be:  Does your contract with her say what would happen if you were to fire her at this point? Would you owe her the remaining money? Honestly, I would probably take the $1900 hit at this point and cut your losses.

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