(Closed) Called off the wedding, still together?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
11422 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@amz_love:  I don’t ever, ever, ever, ever, ever think it’s wrong to call off a wedding if you have doubts.

However, I also completely understand the other person making the choice to move on with his or her life and to make a clean and permanent break if that happens.

Only time will tell what will happen with your Fiance. However, if you are fairly certain that you just cannot move forward with a marriage commitment, it would be most kind to tell him that clearly and to allow him to begin to heal and move on with his life.

Post # 4
1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think that you called it off shows you should not marry him… ever, probably. Being married isn’t about being ready, it’s about committing and following through and continuing to do so every time you have a problem ever for the rest of your life. You have just shown that you are unable to commit and follow through when you have a problem and prefer to back out. That’s your problem resolution style with him, and it is not one that will get you through marriage.

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