(Closed) Calling all bees! I need your help!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Who should be my maid of honor?
    K : (13 votes)
    42 %
    A : (18 votes)
    58 %
  • Post # 3
    2858 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

    Why can’t you have two?

    Post # 4
    501 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I voted for A, but i would talk to her first because she may feel as if she can’t be there enough for you..or maybe can’t make it due to her schedule.

    Post # 5
    7152 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Is either of them married? And how many people are you planning on having in your Wedding Party? Why can’t you have both of them?

    Post # 6
    1763 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Why can’t you have 2? I am not having one at all. I don’t think there are really any rules on having more than one.

    If you really want just one I would go with the friend who is close, just because she will be able to help with Maid/Matron of Honor duties a little bit easier than your cousin.


    Post # 7
    6572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    i vote for both. i don’t see why you can’t have two.

    Post # 8
    751 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Have them both!  I have two MOHs and two bridesmaids.  My MOHs are splitting duties, one is doing the bachelorette party, one is throwing me a shower and both are being incredibly supportive.  They each have unique talents and it’s really great to have both of them as sounding boards.  If I have a question about dresses or makeup, I ask the one who used to work in fashion, if I have questions about timelines and logistics, I call the other who was a stage manager.  I chose two MOHs but in contrast my groom is refusing to “rank” his friends and has four groomsmen, period.  Everyone is cool with our decisions.  Do what works best for you. 

    Post # 9
    631 posts
    Busy bee

    I vote for both but if you only choose one, I vote for your cousin.  I know it sounds sucky, but your family will be there when your friends fade away.

    Post # 10
    73 posts
    Worker bee

    I’m having two and splitting the duties like ladyox did. Fiance is relieved because now he will have two Best Men.

    But if you’re going to go all “traditional” like – I’d go with K…

    Post # 11
    340 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I vote for both as well. I have two MOHs and they are finding it so much easier to plan everything because they have each other.

    Post # 12
    776 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I vote you have both of them!!

    Post # 13
    1051 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I say both as well!  I’m having 2 (technically, since 1 is married & the other is not they’re a maid & matron but close enough!) and am super excited.  One is my best friend who I’ve known for 16 yrs, the other is my sister who’s 9 yrs younger and still in college.  They both mean the world to me=)

    Post # 14
    545 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    I vote for having both of them as your MOHs. But if you HAVE to only have one, I voted for your cousin. 

    Post # 15
    2779 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think have two. And ask them to split the duties between them. I think that’s the best option and you get both your close girlfriends standing close to you on your big day!

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