(Closed) Calling for a virtual slap in the face!!!

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
794 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Backyard Forest

Brownbear23:  Don’t do it! You’ll ruin the surprise! Log out right now!

Post # 3
6203 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

Don’t look.  Get away from that laptop now!!!

Post # 5
564 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Get yourself out of the house right now, lol. That would be too much temptation!

Post # 7
57 posts
Worker bee

Oh man, I’ve been in a very similar situation. Definitely don’t snoop. It’s tempting, but it’s just not worth it. I learned my lesson the hard way on this. Our anniversary was in February, and he kept referencing how he’d bought me something expensive and custom, and the online store had been emailing him progress updates. I remember one day it hit me like a ton of bricks that it might possibly be a ring, and I stupidly snooped in his email (we have a similar email situation to you guys). I saw an email from Gemvara but didn’t open it, and I felt SO guilty for even snooping. Then I got my hopes up and started trying to figure out when he was going to propose, and it drove me crazy. Guess what? It wasn’t a ring! It was a custom necklace. I felt like such an ass. So, basically, long story short… nothing good comes from snooping! Just chill, find a hobby to distract yourself, and let it happen. 🙂

Post # 8
1245 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - San Francisco, CA

Never snoop. Period.

Post # 9
3725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Brownbear23:  Tell him to log out of that shit. That’s what I had to tell him to do. Log out, clear the browsing history, etc. It was too much temptation for me. I was weeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaakkkk.

Post # 10
1224 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Brownbear23:  SLAP!

“We both really want the ring to be a surprise” That would be enough to stop me looking, however tempted I was. Imagine your SO’s reaction if he found out you snooped. You’d be ruining things for him as well as yourself!


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