- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2011
I am writing this under a separate username, because I don’t want this to be associated with any other posts!!
Background : My Fiance and I have been together for a little over a year, friends for 2 years before this, and engaged for a couple months. He is 7 years older than me. I am Christian, he is not. I have had a couple times in the past where I would tell him how much his not being Christian bothers me (it never did at first, now it really does), we would talk it out and I would realize that I still really want to be with him.
Well, with the wedding fast approaching…I realize even more that I do want him to be Christian and this really, really matters to me. We are doing pre-marital counselling with our pastor and he is really enjoying it he said, but I don’t know…
My parents are still married and will not consider a divorce, but are very unhappy. My grandparents just recently broke up. So with this added in, I am terrified to continue this “tradition”.
There’s a couple things he does that just drive me nuts (I know, everyone does), and then there’s other things I’m actually embarrassed that he does in front of other people. I know that no one is perfect and I have really lucked out with this guy, he really and truly is great. But where do you draw the line between “the grass is always greener” and “there’s something better out there”? I am so confused, and scared out of my mind.