(Closed) Calling it off……..

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1379 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@Disneygirl54:  Honestly, as much as it sucks right now, better now than later right? 

Sorry your mom is being not so great. Moms are weird about stuff like this, know that you’re doin the right thing if this marriage wasn’t right for you. 

it takes a lot of guts to leave something that isnt right so props to you.

Post # 4
437 posts
Helper bee

@Disneygirl54:  Are you going to stay engaged and get married later or are you breaking up? I think that since it was such a quick decision and you weren’t sure, calling it off was the right thing.

But I’d also like to say that you should not base your relationship on the fact that you feel like you could live without him, even just barely. In my opinion, you should always feel like you could live without him. I love my SO to death and can’t wait to marry him, but I know that I could live without him if it didn’t work out. Legitimately feeling like you can’t live without someone is venturing on emotional dependence, and that’s not healthy. I’ve been emotionally dependent in the past and it didn’t work out, so I learned the hard way.

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