(Closed) Can a non muslim man have a nikah with a muslim woman without converting?

posted 5 years ago in Muslim
Post # 3
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: March 2013

i dont know of any imams that will marry muslim women to non muslim men. also yes, circumcision is a requirement for muslim men

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I have been told, flat out, that this is forbidden. Because women are weak and will leave the religion to follow the man — or something. I am going through this. I left islam way before I dated my current fiance. No one in the muslim community can accept this, so I chose to leave them and have my own life. If you’re a devout muslim, I think you should reconsider the man. If you are not, just put on a show (for the family) and have him ‘convert’. Tell them he’s already circumsized. They’re not going to pull out his dong.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m the same way – involved with a Christian man while I am Muslim. I know that even dating is technically haram. I figure that Allah would want me to be happy, and if He (SWT) found me someone great who takes wonderful care of me and loves me – it’s up to no one else to judge me, but if you look at all the “rules” then no, a Muslim woman cannot marry a non-Muslim man. 

http://sisters.islamway.net/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=230

http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/21380

 

If you google this subject you will find a lot of articles about it. But I really feel you should do what makes you happy. 

Post # 5
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Worker bee

Im Muslim and my fiancé is Catholic. Because we cant have nikah we are having a regular american wedding. Were in love and he has good morals and ethics. He doesnt drink, smoke, do drugs or is neglectful.  Other than our religious views he fits good example. I cant have children so I dont see why our marriage wouldnt be valid. But it isnt, but were in love. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

sootara:  It is not a requirement. It is a good thing to do if it is a possibility (sometimes, in some countries it is not). If not done in infancy, circumcision could be a dangerous procedure

Post # 7
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Busy bee

CrazyRubberDucky:  The main reason is not at all the women being weak and following him, It is actually forbidden because woman have certain rights that are given to them when married in islam, so if the groom is not muslim he wont be giving her the islamic rights that she deserves. Just another amazing reason to show islam does NOT opress woman, but rather treasures them and repects them 

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

If you love a man who is not a muslim then go for a registered marriage, why do you need to have a nikah? I really don’t think that in Islam’s light the marriage has any validity because Muslim woman can only marry a Muslim man. However, if you are sure about him I’d say be happy…

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

Binth_Ari: Is there a reason you want to to do the nikah? I’m Agnostic but my family are all Muslim and heaps of people I know do the nikah and then have a non-religious ceremony as well. I don’t see why you can’t just skip the nikah alltogether when you still have to sign the papers. Does your Fiance want a nikah considering it’s not part of his religion?

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

littlebee94 :  

 Just another amazing reason to show islam does NOT opress woman, but rather treasures them and repects them 

In theory,  no doubt….

Post # 12
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Wannabee

Sister 

Post # 13
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Wannabee

Never justify your desires by giving excuses and making halal what Allah has strictly forbidden. Wholeheartedly submit yourself to lord and sacrifice or enjoy the pleasures of the worldly life for a brief and appointed time.but when death over takes you and the eternal life begins than be aware of a painful punishment for those who sold the eternal life for a worldly gain.  Zina is a major sin that nullifys your good deeds.now picture going before your lord with no good deeds maybe even negative on the scales because you chose to partake in a sham of a marriage that did not exist in the sight of Allah. Not only did you risk your religion but that possibly of your future children all because of your selfish desires. Be aware that there are more woman in hellfire than men and all of them transgressed as if there lord wasn’t watching them. He knows what you hide in your breasts and what you say out loud and there will never be an excuse accepted for those who intentionally disobey there lord.

Post # 14
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Wannabee

If you be a Muslim trust that the creator of the heavens and the earth is all knowing and infinitely wise he knows what is best for you even though you may not perceive it. If you practice patience be assured that the lord has something better for you but if you follow your desires and willfully disobey him know that the lord is severe in punishment. Do not be like the hypocrites whom the Quran states will be in the lowest depths of hell but rather be like the believers whom took the promise of the lord and  say “we hear and obey.” Just to reiterate in clear terms for those who’s desires still oppose them from accepting the commandment of Allah. Never will it be accepted by Allah for a Muslim  woman to Marry a non- Muslim man. What you do after this is up to you but fear Allah and a tremendous day when kids hair will turn grey and a mother will release her burdens.  Your children, relatives, husband or your riches can never avail you against the lord. A day when your body will testify against you and you will read from your book of deeds. Fool your parents fool your relatives but you can never fool the lord.dont take me as harsh my sisters Walahi the only reason I took the time to write this my dear sisters is that I love you for the sake of Allah and I care about your eternal souls.

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Wannabee

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