(Closed) Can I ask my FI groomsman to throw him a bachelor’s party?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Blushing bee

So, I am kind of doing the same thing. 🙂 I think that my guy’s groomsmen have full *intention* of getting something together, but they (like him) are not so great on the organization side of things. I have the best man’s email and the email of one of his groomsmen here in town and have 1) gotten them in touch and 2) sent them ideas about what my fiance might like. I think as long as you are just “making the connection” it’s fine and probably appreciated.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Joining on the bandwagon with a similar situation.

FI’s Groomsmen (his brother, friend who actually helped get us together, and cousin) are not on the ball. His brother lives four hours away, is married, with four kids. His friend works a ton and has lots of family issues and it’s really hard to get a hold of him. His cousin is in another state and they’re not all that close.

Luckily, Fiance doesn’t want a bachelor party, so I’m hoping then when all three guys come into town, they will all at least hang out and grab a bite to eat or something!

Post # 6
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1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

sure why not ask?!? tell them you will be out of town and he should plan something fun 🙂

Post # 7
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Blushing bee

@mary_p0sa:  I would try facebook? Our best man’s wife is pretty good about communicating so I often just go through her. Maybe you guys have someone like that too? Good luck!

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