(Closed) Can I ask my Maid/Matron of Honors before the rest of my bridesmaids?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  I don’t see why not. My Maid/Matron of Honor is my sister. She actually asked me if she was going to be it when I told her I was engaged (you have to know my sister to realize that it came off in a way that is just her…it wasn’t bratty or anything, just very much my sister). I did say that she definitely would be. Now, my sister doesn’t really talk to any of my other bridesmaids (except for our cousin), so I didn’t have to worry about that getting out.

Post # 4
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I asked my bridesmaids at differnt times they didnt all know each other so it was fine

Post # 6
Bee
615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Mother of the Bride's residence

I let my Maid/Matron of Honor know right away because I figured even if we were only having a best man and maid of honour, she’d be it. She’s been my best friend since I was a kid so it was a natural choice. 🙂

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