(Closed) Can I Cry now????

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1238 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

honestly, i’m at the point in the wedding planning process (t-minus 6 weeks!) that I wish I had just invited 30-40 people. weddings can bring out the worst in people: family, friends, and even yourself.

it seems like a weird move on your Uncle’s Fiacee’s part, but it wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world to have a beautiful intimate wedding.

girl, you can cry if you want to, but things will work out for the best. and don’t over-stretch yourselves financially.

Post # 4
8435 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Weddings are expensive- for guests as well. I think you just need to plan the wedding that you want, invite who you want there and not hold it against anyone that cannot make it for whatever reason. If you cannot afford to attend your cousins wedding then just be honest- I am sure they will understand.

Post # 5
1077 posts
Bumble bee

Wow, what a passive agressive thing to do! I agree with j_jaye, plan the wedding you want. I would consider keeping the date under wraps until your Save-The-Date Cards go out. Generally I prioritize whatever I was invited to first, but that may just be me. 

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