(Closed) Can I dump my bridesmaid 3 weeks before the wedding??

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

No.  I wouldn’t at this point.   Let the day play out and go from there.   Many people can’t afford to go to Vegas for a bachelorette party, and a lot of people in general really are not good at RSVPs.   She sounds like she has issues, but it would be drama to kick her out with 3 weeks to spare.    I think you need to woman up and call her, lay it all out on the table and go from there.  I would NOT lay it out like you suggested, or you are going to get some attitude back.   It’s not fair to dump her over hearsay.  Give her the out if you sense she wants it, but you definitely need to communicate with her, and not through someone else.

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