Post # 1
seriously both of them are driving me nuts. Stressing me out so much. I told them both i want the next few weeks to be completely stress free until my ultrasound because im stressed enough already but im sick of the she said this and she said that.
They are constantly trying to outdo one another and i cant take it anymore.
Can a person have no bridesmaids!!! lol
Post # 3
You can certainly choose to have none, but firing ones you’ve already asked is… tricky, to say the least.
What have they been saying/doing, exactly?
Post # 4
one of them said i was too skinny to wear a wedding dress
had a call from one saying the other one was upset because of this that and the other but when i called her the conversation hadnt even happened
arguing over who has the most involvement
invited both of them to come to my fitting and one was busy and tried to get me to move my appointment back 3 weeks when she knows i need to be measured now because im pregnant
moaning because one went to the open day at our venue (i didnt invite her it was an open day anyone can turn up)
they cant agree on anything they both think the other has more involvement when i always ask both of them for opinions.
Post # 5
You can but be prepared for it to potentially end your friendship, as these things are ofte quite devisive especially if your relationship is already strained.
Post # 6
In the words of Stephanie Tanner… HOW RUDE! (Of them, not you!)
I wouldn’t want them around either, but I’m not sure how you could fire them without completely destroying your friendship… unless you’re okay with doing that.
Post # 7
It’s always greener on the other side… I have read many posts with BMs who lack involement and the brides who feel sad and alone from it. Good luck. It may be hormones (been there, done that) and good luck with the baby and wedding!
Post # 8
Maybe sit them both down and explain to them how you feel.
Post # 9
@Elm tree: yeah i need all the luck i can get- i will give them an ultimatum- stop your bickering and get along or i will find replacements for both of you.
I have told them both that i want peace and quiet for the next 2 weeks- i dont want to hear a peep out of them before my scan. I said at the moment all i can think about is my baby and hoping everything is ok at the scan- after that i will be a bit more human and might want to start talking ablout wedding stuff again.
I do think im over sensitive right now- i cant deal with both wedding and baby at the moment- to me the baby comes first. i know i have been a bit of a bitch and been snapping at them both but they need to understand their arguing is just making me more stressed.