(Closed) Can I get away with not inviting a groomsman's girlfriend?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should she be invited
    Invite the terror. You really can't get away will not including her. : (116 votes)
    91 %
    It's okay not to if she truly is a menace. : (11 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 31
    Member
    2394 posts
    Buzzing bee

    thefuturemrsross:  Rock, meet hard place. UGH. Sorry you’re dealing with the Bee, but I think you know you have to invite her. What a crummy situation. I’m sorry.

    Post # 32
    Member
    20 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    Be the better person. Simple as that. If you try to cover it up with the “I didn’t think you’d want to come to my out of town wedding”, she will see right through it. Of course she would want to go out of town with her boyfriend! Its not like you would be sending HER the invite though. She would be the groomsman’s plus one and you shouldn’t try to dictate who is someone’s +1.  On your wedding day, focus on the people there that make you happy. That is what that day is about. : )

    Post # 33
    Member
    836 posts
    Busy bee

    thefuturemrsross:  you’re going to have to invite her since he is a groomsmen, maybe she wont come! Just remember its your day and do not give her a second thought even if she is there, i doubt you’ll even notice since you’ll be so happy on the day!

     

    Im not even having a wedding and I’m still inviting one of FI’s closest friends to the reception –  he is a drunk, very VERY rude and condescending and is on baby mama number 4 or 5 – dont remember. His girlfriend is nice though. 

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