(Closed) can i get rid of a bridesmaid???

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

hm…well in terms of not doing anything for the wedding, did you voice your expectations with him?  he may just not know what you want him to do as I am guessing he hasn’t been a bridesman before.

Post # 4
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654 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

He might just feel uncomfortable because he’s a man and all the other attendants are women.  What kind of planning were you expecting from him?  Is it really a big deal to just let him show up in his tux on the wedding day?  It’s not really fair to demote him just because he isn’t really interested in bouquets or has no one to walk down the aisle with.  Those things aren’t his fault.  I bet all he was expecting when you asked was the honour of standing with you on your day, and I wouldn’t take that away from him.

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