- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
My friend is a trainwreck and I am 100% certain that she thinks someone is going to sweep her off her feet and take care of her so that she doesn’t have to do anything
I really just want to say this!
“Really, I mean really?! You want to marry this guy? Why?! Ever since K broke up with you in high school you have been a total nut ball…Do you remember why K broke up with you? You were SO dependent and wanted to get married and were repeating your second year as a jumior .All any of us wanted you to do was find motivation to do something with your life! I mean, I am in my second year of college now and you are older than me taking adult high school classes….S you live with your Aunt because your mom couldn’t continue caring for you since you show no signs of improvement! You have NEVER worked a day in your life, not a single day and yet you are SO disrespectful to your Aunt! After K broke up with you everything went hay wire but you weren’t all there even before he left…Seriously you had sex with a different person every other week and would call me saying you were pregnant. Remember when that one guy started dating you and you said you couldn’t be on birth control because you were catholic? S why do you want to get pregnant so badly?! You have NO chance of caring for anything! You can’t even take care of yourself….A baby and a marriage won’t make you happy S, it won’t. You just met this guy and got over a pregnancy scare. I asked what you would do if you really were pregnant and you said you would get married! What if he divorced you or refused to marry you as the due date got closer? That baby would go to him because he has a stable job! You would have no hope in keeping that child if he wanted it! Thank god you weren’t pregnant….Now you want to marry this dude immediantely? What is the rush?! You don’t know anything about him and he hasn’t even proposed? He isn’t showing interest in marriage! Will you freak out if he leaves you? I can’t be your friend anymore S! Your life is a train wreck and it is because you are lazy, lazy, LAZY! Get off your butt and do all those things you say you would like to do! Hurry before you Aunt stops helping you because I can’t afford to take you in! Stop this before you end up on rock bottom….
Your soon to be ex-friend