(Closed) Can I have a girl ring bearer?

posted 11 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
2777 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Why not? I think Mrs Star had her sister be the ring bearer! It’s not a gender specific title 🙂

Post # 4
1465 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Absolutely. There’s nothing stating anywhere that the ringbearer can only be a boy.

Post # 5
375 posts
Helper bee

Very cute!!! I think “ringbearer” sounds appropriate. It doesn’t indicate gender.

Post # 6
4160 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think that would be so cute.  I was just looking at pics from a former schoolmates wedding, and she had a “flower boy” who dropped feathers instead of petals!

Post # 7
941 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think that would be awesome!!! I think the only restrictions in regards to gender are the ones you set yourself.  One of my fiance’s “grooms men” is one of his long time female friends.  She’s going to wear the groom’s color.  🙂

I think have whoever in the party that’ll make the day feel special.  And it sounds like having your niece being the ring bearer would be really sweet. 

Post # 8
418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

if you could have a DOG ring bearer, then you could most certainly have a girl ring bearer! Smile

Post # 9
1816 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

I think it would be very sweet to have one of your nieces as the ring bearer.  I have seen weddings where there is no ring bearer and the maid of honor just tied the rings to her wrist with a ribbon.  And, as dovelovesfalcon mentioned, even dogs have acted as ringbearers.  No reason a little girl couldn’t do it.

Post # 10
1568 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

Absolutely. Much of what some consider essential gender roles divides are complete junk, and there’s perhaps no better example than a small pre-pubescent child. They’re pretty much the same when they’re that young no matter how you slice it. Have a ring girl!

Post # 11
773 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My fi’s little sister is being my ring bearer!

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